Passive aggressive??
I was thinking tonight about how I deal with situations/people sometimes. Although I can be quite blunt and direct at times, other times I find I'd rather confront issues by avoiding them all together. So, I looked up passive aggressiveness on Wikipedia. Although I don't think I have the personality disorder, some of the traits I definitely do display at times. But I don't feel so bad, I can think of several people I know that also fit the description!
Common signs of passive-aggressive personality disorder
There are certain behaviors that help identify passive-aggressive behavior.
Common signs of passive-aggressive personality disorder
There are certain behaviors that help identify passive-aggressive behavior.
- Ambiguity
- Avoiding responsibility by claiming forgetfulness
- Blaming others
- Chronic lateness and forgetfulness
- Complaining
- Does not express hostility or anger openly
- Fear of authority
- Fear of competition
- Fear of dependency
- Fear of intimacy
- Fosters chaos
- Intentional inefficiency
- Making excuses and lying
- Obstructionism
- Procrastination
- Resentment
- Resists suggestions from others
- Sarcasm
- Sullenness
A passive-aggressive may not have all of these behaviours, and may have other non-passive-aggressive traits.